Maybe you came home from work one night and were blindsided by a note saying he’d left you for another woman.
Or was your very first inkling of trouble when you got a call from the county jail where your husband had been taken after he was caught with a prostitute? Whatever the circumstance, you caught your husband in a " marital affair" and now your world is shattered.
Hi. My name is Wendy.
I'm a "Certified Professional Coach" and "Certified Recovery Coach" and have coached and mentored women in Affair Recovery. I am going to start off by telling you what happened to me. I could make a lot of promises to you but if you’re where I was promises don’t mean anything to you right now. The person you trusted most lied to you and deceived you.Why should you believe me? With what has happened to you, no reason in the world. The one thing I do know is if you expect time alone to heal the wounds of betrayal, you are very wrong. You CAN get better but you need to address what happened to you.
This is my story:
April 18th has always been a very special day to me since 1975. That was the day our son was born and it has always been a joyful day for me, no matter what else was going on. April 18th was a day to remember something wonderful. However, on April 18th, 2007 I discovered my husband had been having an affair. Afterward, as a result of my discovery after my husband made sure to let me know the affair was all my fault and to tell me he had never considered his marriage vows to really mean anything AND he thought he had never really loved me…maybe a little bit when he first knew me but probably not even then.
"When I heard those words it was if a nuclear explosion
had gone off and seared those words into my brain."
I had already been going to counseling so I continued to see my therapist and he tried to address the issue of my husband’s infidelity but he really didn’t help much. He had no experience in working with couples experiencing betrayal. I was walking through my days like a zombie. I felt like I was walking in a fog…like I was in a country I didn’t know without a map. I had no landmarks to go by. I was in a place I didn’t recognize. Everything I thought I knew about myself, everything I thought I was, had been altered
I kept thinking ..What’s wrong with me? I should be able to get past this…I should be able to get better…
I know that first night—the night of April 18th—when I went to bed I was SO cold. I was chilled to my core and that didn’t really go away for many months.
The problem was, I had lost my “story”. I didn’t know who I was. I didn’t know who my husband was that he could do this to me. I would look at him and think ‘Who ARE you?” How can I have been with you all these years and not known who you were? I thought I knew who this man was and the things he said to me I could not believe! I didn’t know where they came from. The man I thought I knew would never say those things, would never DO those things.
At first my husband was pretty much done with me. He didn’t want to do anything about salvaging the relationship. He was just done and I really didn’t care much either. I was destroyed that the person I loved most in the world could do this to me…What was WRONG with me?
What was wrong with me the person I loved would do this to me. I felt I wasn’t good enough. I felt betrayed. I was even afraid to cry. I felt as if I cried I would dissolve.
Oer time and working with other betrayed women I discovered we share many feelings; abandonment, betrayal, and being discounted, intrusive thoughts that come out of nowhere and leave you feeling isolated because you feel you have no one to talk to OR you’ve told people and now they think they have the right to tell you what you NEED to do.. They say you need to leave him now OR they tell you that you CAN’T leave. You want your husband back—the one you knew OR you wish you would never see him again.
They tell you to get over it (as if you wouldn’t if you could!)
You feel you have no solid ground to put your foot on. No foundation.
I would love to tell you it’s going to go away instantly. I would love to be able to tell you a pill would help or say an affirmation 3 times a day and the bad dream will all go away. But I can’t do that because that would be another lie and you have had enough of them…
BUT, there is an answer.
My husband and I tried counselors, doctors, friends and those things really didn’t help. We went for a long time without getting any kind of relief. We did find a group aimed at couple’s recovery that helped get us on track but I still needed more. I was struggling…but it was through that struggle I found an answer.
I’m not going to tell you it’s the ONLY answer because I don’t know that. What I do know is it is what worked for me and others I work with. It has given me the ability to walk out of the pit of despair, anguish, anger and sadness I was trapped in. I have been able to walk out into the light and feel joy and positive about my life.
I have been where you are and I know the path out. I know if it worked for me it can work for you because I am not an extraordinary person. I am just another woman whose husband had an affair and that imploded my life and I had to learn to either live the rest of my life in pain or find a way out and I did. Enough so that I work with other women and have this plan that will work for you too.
I want you to be able to have your life back. I’m not going to lie and tell you it will be the same life. It can’t be. It can be a gift though, the opportunity to build your life this time the way you want it. It will be something YOU can decide.
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